It’s true that sometimes when you fall in love with someone you go to extreme lengths to get what you want from them, but it’s advised to act responsibly to prevent regrets. There are some things that women shouldn’t specifically ask for in a relationship.
No matter how much you value, respect, and adore your spouse or partner, there are some things you should never request in a marriage or relationship.
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Time and Attention
You must act maturely and independently if you don’t want to be regarded as a desperate woman. Your partner has a right to treat you nicely in return for the way you treat him. Any connection that affects you mentally should be avoided. You should be aware that a man who loves you won’t be pleased or at ease if he sees you pleading for attention. The majority of the time, if someone truly loves you, they will naturally want to spend their time with you. Make sure your partner makes time for you instead of just showing up when he has nothing to do.
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Invitation
It’s best to ignore him and recognize that he likely isn’t proud of you in public or doesn’t want people to know you are his girlfriend if you invite your partner to special occasions like your birthday or if you want to accompany him to a ceremony but he acts reluctantly without providing any specific justification.
If your boyfriend truly loves you, he should be proud of you and eager to brag about you, or if he can’t go with you at the moment, he should have a good explanation.
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Marriage
No matter your age or status, don’t beg a guy to marry you. If you do, you will regrettably have to beg for everything as long as you are still in a relationship with him. Marriage is something you have to pray about and carefully choose your life partner. If he loves you, he won’t hesitate to express his feelings or wait for you to prompt him. Someone doesn’t deserve your love and commitment if they aren’t interested in establishing plans for the future with you. Accept your own worth and terminate the relationship.
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Money
Women are advised to be independent and not be a burden to their partners because they may grow tired of having to take care of them all the time. Have a job and put in the effort to become an independent woman so you won’t always need to rely on your partner’s money to pay for your undergarments, hair, clothes, and other necessities. Even if your partner isn’t currently complaining, he might insult you in the future for that. Be independent and spare yourself the embarrassment.
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Apology
You may find out that most women eventually ask their partners to apologize for their wrongdoing, but this is never a good idea. As a young woman, you should recognize that your partner is an adult now, and if he hurts you, it is his responsibility to apologize and promise never to do the same thing again. He ought to feel bad and apologize without needing a reminder from you. What sort of apology is it if you have to beg him for it?
